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H.O.P.E. In Borderline Personality Disorder


This site offers hope for Borderline Personality Disorder. There is hope for recovery if you have Borderline Personality Disorder. If you have BPD you may well have to search long and hard for hope. Search as long and as hard as it takes. Part of the journey requires this search for hope. It is the search for and the finding some belief in hope that is the way to get on the road to recovery.


Non Borderlines - Watch A.J.'s Latest Video - Non Borderline Illusions of Rescuing a Borderline" on YouTube and join this site's Message Forum to discuss this topic with A.J. and others.

Borderlines - Watch A.J.'s Latest Video - "Wants and Needs in Borderline Personality Disorder" on YouTube



A.J. Mahari is currently writing a memoir about her life and experience as a person who had two parents with Borderline Personality Disorder, as a person who was diagnosed herself with BPD at the age of 19 and from her perspective as someone who has recovered from BPD. There is a new section on her BPD Blog called The Diary - My Borderline Years



Audio Program

"Finding Hope From the Polarized Negativity of BPD"

© A.J. Mahari

Jan 21/08Audio Program "Preparing For Recovery From BPD" Parts 1 & 2 by A.J. Mahari

Purchase all 3 of ebooks for NON BORDERLINES packaged together with or without audio.

Non Borderlines - You can purchase 6 ebooks packaged together with or without audio.

Those with BPD and/or Non Borderlines can purchase A.J. Mahari's 3 "Core Wound of Abandonment" series ebooks packaged together with or without audio.


Jan 23/08 Audio Program Rage Addiction in BPD by A.J. Mahari (sold separately or packaged with Mahari's Ebook, "Rage and BPD")

Hope is made up of help - learning to help yourself if you have BPD; Optimism - learning to replace negative thoughts with neutral ones and later positive thoughts; Perspective - challenging your current perspective which is based upon your past experience; Enigma - learning to unwind the maze of enigma that has your lost authentic self and your dissociated from inner child housed within it and peeling back the layers of borderline defenses revealing not only hope but the mystery to the puzzle of who you really are.



 H ELP
 O PTIMISM
 P ERSPECTIVE
 E NIGMA


Audio Programs By A.J. Mahari © 2007-2008


  • Hope For Borderline Personality Disorder




  • Purchase all 3 of ebooks for NON BORDERLINES packaged together with or without audio.

    Non Borderlines - You can purchase 6 ebooks packaged together with or without audio.

    Those with BPD and/or Non Borderlines can purchase A.J. Mahari's 3 "Core Wound of Abandonment" series ebooks packaged together with or without audio.


    Hope can be elusive when you have Borderline Personality Disorder. It is the defense mechanisms employed by the false self in BPD that perpetuate a negative pattern of thinking - thinking that is often highly distorted - that keeps those with BPD effectively blocked from the awareness that they need to get in touch with in order to facilitate the possibility of finding and learning to hold out hope. This hope awaits your attention to it and nurturing of it - you must open enough to allow this possibility for hope to rise up from deep within you. There is hope, deep down inside, locked and hidden away, in the lost and wounded abandoned child of each and every person with BPD.

    © A.J. Mahari February 14, 2008

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    Jan 21/08 A New Audio Program "Preparing For Recovery From BPD" Parts 1 & 2 by A.J. Mahari

    Jan 23/08 A New Audio Program Rage Addiction in BPD by A.J. Mahari (sold separately or packaged with Mahari's Ebook, "Rage and BPD")


    as of September 20, 2002 (on this site)






    © A.J. Mahari 2002 - 2008. Last up-dated on August 17, 2008