Repetition Compulsions
In "New Principles for the Practice of Individual Psychology,"(1913)
Alfred Adler comments:
"Thus the neurosis and the psyche represent an attempt to free
oneself from all the constraints of the community by establishing
a counter-compulsion. This latter is so constituted that it effectively
faces the peculiar nature of the surroundings and their demands. Both
of these convincing inferences can be drawn from the manner in which
this counter-compulsion manifests itself and from the neuroses selected."
The Compulsion to Repeat the Trauma Re-enactment, Revictimization, and Masochism
By & © Bessel A. van der Kolk, MD
During the formative
years of contemporary psychiatry much attention was paid to
the continuing role of past traumatic experiences on the
current lives of people. Charcot, Janet, and Freud all
noted that fragmented memories of traumatic events
dominated the mental life of many of their patient and
built their theories about the nature and treatment of
psychopathology on this recognition. Janet75 thought
that traumatic memories of traumatic events persist as
unassimilated fixed ideas that act as foci for the
development of alternate states of consciousness, including
dissociative phenomena, such as fugue states, amnesias, and
chronic states of helplessness and depression. Unbidden
memories of the trauma may return as physical sensations,
horrific images or nightmares, behavioral reenactments, or
a combination of these. Janet showed how traumatized
individuals become fixated on the trauma: difficulties in
assimilating subsequent experiences as well. It is "as if
their personality development has stopped at a certain
point and cannot expand anymore by the addition or
assimilation of new elements."76 Freud independently came to
similar conclusions.43,45 Initially, he thought
all hysterical symptoms were caused by childhood sexual
"seduction" of which unconscious memories were activated,
when during adolescence, a person was exposed to situations
reminiscent of the original trauma. The trauma permanently
disturbed the capacity to deal with other challenges, and
the victim who did not integrate the trauma was doomed to
"repeat the repressed material as a contemporary experience
in instead or . . . remembering it as something belonging
to the past."44 In this article, I will
show how the trauma is repeated on behavioral, emotional,
physiologic, and neuroendocrinologic levels, whose
confluence explains the diversity of repetition
phenomena. Many
traumatized people expose themselves, seemingly
compulsively, to situations reminiscent of the original
trauma. These behavioral reenactments are rarely
consciously understood to be related to earlier life
experiences. This "repetition compulsion" has received
surprisingly little systematic exploration during the 70
years since its discovery, though it is regularly described
in the clinical literature.12,17,21,29,61,64,65,69,88,112,137
Freud thought that the aim of repetition was to gain
mastery, but clinical experience has shown that this rarely
happens; instead, repetition causes further suffering for
the victims or for people in their surroundings.
Children seem more
vulnerable than adults to compulsive behavioral repetition
and loss of conscious memory of the trauma.70,136.
However, responses to projective tests show that adults,
too, are liable to experience a large range of stimuli
vaguely reminiscent of the trauma as a return of the trauma
itself, and to react accordingly.39,42 BEHAVIORAL RE-ENACTMENT In behavioral
re-enactment of the trauma, the self may play the role of
either victim or victimizer. Harm to Others
Re-enactment of victimization is a major cause of violence.
Criminals have often been physically or sexually abused as
children.55,121 In a recent prospective
study of 34 sexually abused boys, Burgess et al.20 found a
link with drug abuse, juvenile delinquency, and criminal
behavior only a few year later. Lewis89,91 has extensively studied
the association between childhood abuse and subsequent
victimization of others. Recently, she showed that of 14
juveniles condemned to death for murder in the United
States in 1987, 12 had been brutally physically abused, and
five had been sodomized by relatives.90 In a study of
self-mutilating male criminals, Brach-y-Rita7 concluded
that "the constellation of withdrawal, depressive reaction,
hyperreactivity, stimulus-seeking behavior, impaired pain
perception, and violent aggressive behavior directed at
self or others may be the consequence of having been reared
under conditions of maternal social deprivation. This
constellation of symptoms is a common phenomenon among a
member of environmentally deprived animals." Self-destructiveness
Self-destructive acts are common in abused children.
Green53,54 found that 41 per cent
of his sample of abused children engaged in headbanging,
biting, burning, and cutting. In a controlled, double-blind
study on traumatic antecedents of borderline personality
disorder, we found a highly significant relationship
between childhood sexual abuse and various kinds of
self-harm later in life, particularly cutting and
self-starving.143a Clinical reports also
consistently show that self-mutilators have childhood
histories of physical or sexual abuse, or repeated
surgery.52,106,118,126 Simpson and
Porter126 found a significant
association between self-mutilation and other forms of
self-deprecation or self-destruction such as alcohol and
drug abuse and eating disorders. They sum up the
conclusions of many students of this problem in stating
that "self-destructive activities were not primarily
related to conflict, guilt and superego pressure, but to
more primitive behavior patterns originating in painful
encounters wih hostile caretakers during the first years of
life." Revictimization
Revictimization is a consistent finding.35,47,61
Victims of rape are more likely to be raped and women who
were physically or sexually abused as children are more
likely to be abused as adults. Victims of child sexual
abuse are at high risk of becoming prostitutes.38,72,125
Russell,120 in a very careful study
of the effects of incest on the life of women, found that
few women made a conscious connection between their
childhood victimization and their drug abuse, prostitution,
and suicide attempts. Whereas 38 per cent of a random
sample of women reported incidents of rape or attempted
rape after age 14, 68 per cent of those with a childhood
history of incest did. Twice as many women with a history
of physical violence in their marriages (27 per cent), and
more than twice as many (53 per cent) reported unwanted
sexual advances by an unrelated authority figure such as a
teacher, clergyman, or therapist. Victims of
father-daughter incest were four times more likely than
nonincest victims to be asked to pose for pornography. RE-EXPERIENCING AFTER ADULT
TRAUMA
There are sporadic clinical reports,12,59 but systematic studies
on re-enactment and revictimization in traumatized adults
are even scarcer than in children. In one study of adults
who who had recently been in accidents,68 57 per
cent showed behavioral re-enactments, and 51 per cent had
recurrent intrusive images. In this study, the frequency
with which recurrent memories were experienced on a somatic
level, as panic and anxiety attacks, was not examined.
Studies of burned children131 and adult survivors of
natural and manmade disasters67,124 show that, over time,
rucurrent symbolic or visual recollections and behavioral
re-enactments abate, but there is often persistent chronic
anxiety that can be interpreted as partial somatosensory
reliving, dissociated from visual or linguistic
representations of the trauma.141 There are scattered
clinical reports64,65,109 of people
re-enacting the trauma on its anniversary. For example, we
treated a Vietnam veteran who had lit a cigarette at night
and caused the death of a friend by a VietCong sniper's
bullet in 1968. From 1969 to 1986, on the exact anniversary
of the death, to the hour and minute, he yearly committed
"armed robbery" by putting a finger in his pocket and
staging a "holdup," in order to provoke gunfire from the
police. The compulsive re-enactment ceased when he came to
understand its meaning. SOCIAL ATTACHMENT AND THE TRAUMA
RESPONSE
Human beings are strongly dependent on social support for a
sense of safety, meaning, power, and control.14,15,93 Even
our biologic maturation is strongly influenced by the
nature of early attachment bonds.137 Traumatization occurs
when both internal and external resources are inadequate to
cope with external threat. Physical and emotional
maturation, as well as innate variations in physiologic
reactivity to perceived danger, play important roles in the
capacity to deal with external threat.77 The
presence of familiar caregivers also plays an important
role in helping children modulate their physiologic
arousal.146 In the absence of a
caregiver, chidren experience extremes of under-and over
arousal that are physiologically aversive and
disorganizing.38 The availability of a
caregiver who can be blindly trusted when their own
resources are inadequate is very important in coping with
threats. If the caregiver is rejecting and abusive,
children are likely to become hyperaroused. When the
persons who are supposed to be the sources of safety and
nurturance become simultaneously the sources of danger
against which protection is needed, children maneuver to
re-establish some sense of safety. Instead of turning on
their caregivers and thereby losing hope for protection,
they blame themselves. They become fearfully and hungrily
attached and anxiously obedient.24 Bowlby16 calls this
"a pattern of behavior in which avoidance of them competes
with his desire for proximity and care and in which angry
behavior is apt to become prominent."
Studies by Bowlby and Ainsworth1 in humans, and by Harlow and
his heirs58,114 in other primates,
demonstrate the crucial role that a "safe base" plays for
normal social and biologic development. As children mature,
they continually acquire new cognitive schemata in which to
frame current life experiences. These ever-expanding
cognitive schemes decrease their reliance on the
environment for soothing and increase their own capacity to
modulate physiologic arousal in the face of threat. Thus,
the cognitive preparedness (development) of an individual
interacts with the degree of physiologic disorganization to
determine the capacity for mental processing of potentially
traumatizing experiences.137,141 SEX DIFFERENCES The
frequency with which abused children repeat aggressive
interactions has suggested to Green53 a link between the
compulsion to repeat and identification with the aggressor,
which replaces fear and helplessness with a sense of
omnipotence. There are significant sex differences in the
way trauma victims incorporate the abuse experience.
Studies by Carmen et al.22,71 and others indicate that
abused men and boys tend to identify with the aggressor and
later victimize others wheras abused women are prone to
become attached to abusive men who allow themselves and
their offspring to be victimized further.
Reiker and colleagues113 have pointed out that
"confrontations wih violence challenges one's most basic
assumptions about the self as invulnerable and
intrinsically worthy and about the world as orderly and
just. After abuse, the victim's view of self and world can
never be the same again: it must be reconstructed.to
incorporate the abuse experience." Assuming responsibility
for the abuse allows feelings of helplessness to be
replaced with an illusion of control. Ironically, victims
of rape who blame themselves have a better prognosis than
those who do not assume this false responsibility: it
allows the locus of control to remain internal and prevent
helplessness. Children are even more likely to blame
themselves: "The child needs to hold on to an image of the
parent as good in order to deal with the intensity of fear
and rage which is the effect of the tormenting
experiences."113 Anger directed against
the self or others is always a central problem in the life
of people who have been violated. Reikers concludes that
"this 'acting out' is seldom understood by either victims
or clinicians as being a repetitive re-enactment of real
events from the past." THE SEPARATION REPONSE
Primates have evolved highly complex ways to maintain
attachment bonds; they are intensely dependent on their
caregivers at the start. In lower primates, his dependency
is principally expressed in physical contact, in humans
this is supplemented by verbal communication. McLean93 suggests
that language is an evolutionary development from the
mammalian separation cry that induces caregivers to provide
safety, nurturance, and social stimulation. Primates react
to separation from attachment figures as if they were
directly threatened. Thus, small children, unable to
anticipate the future, experience separation anxiety as
soon as they lose sight of their mothers. Bowlby has
described the protest and dispair phases of this response
in great detail.14,15 As people mature, hey
develop an ever-enlarging repertoire of coping responses,
but adults are still intensely dependent upon social
support to prevent and overcome traumatization, and under
threat they still may cry out for their mothers.57 Sudden,
uncontrollable loss of attachment bonds is an essential
element in the development of post-traumatic stress
syndromes.45,88,92,138 On exposure to
extreme terror, even mature people have protest and dispair
responses (anger and grief, intrusion and numbing) that
make them turn toward the nearest available source of
comfort to return to a state of both psychological and
physiologic calm. Thus, severe external threat may result
in renewed clinging and neophobia in both children and
adults.8,41,111 Because the attachment
system is so important, mobilization of social supports is
an important element in the treatment of post-traumatic
stress disorder (PTSD). INCREASED ATTACHMENT IN THE FACE OF
DANGER
People in general, and children in particular, seek
increased attachment in the face of external danger. Pain,
fear, fatigue, and loss of loved ones and protectors all
evoke efforts to attract increased care,8,41,111 and
most cultures have rituals designed to provide it. When
there is no access to ordinary sources of comfort, people
may turn toward their tormentors.14,38,80,102 Adults as well as
children may develop strong emotional ties with people who
intermittently harass, beat, and threaten them. Hostages
have put up bail for their captors, expressed a wish to
marry them, or had sexual relations with them;31 abused
children often cling to their parents and resist being
removed from the home;31,80 inmates of Nazi prison
camps sometimes imitated their captors by sewing together
clothing to copy SS uniforms.11 When Harlow observed this
in nonhuman primates, he stated that "the immediate
consequences of maternal rejection is the accentuation of
proximity seeking on the part of the infant."114
Walker145
and Dutton and Painter31 have noted that the bond
between batter and victim in abusive marriages resembles
the bond between captor and hostage or cult leader and
follower. Social workers, police, and legal personnel are
constantly frustrated by the strength of this bond. The
woman's longing for the batterer soon prevails over
memories of the terror, and she starts to make excuses for
his behavior. This pattern is so common that women engaged
in these sorts of relationships become the recipients of
intense anger for social service personnel. They are then
called masochistic, and like other psychiatric terms, this
can be employed pejoratively rather than conveying an
understanding of the underlying causes and treatment of the
problem. Walker145 first applied ethnology
to the study of traumatic bonding in such couples. A
central component is captivity, the lack of permeability,
and the absence of outside support or influence.31,62,119,145
The victim organizes her life completely around pleasing
her captor and his demands. As Dutton and Painter point
out, "her compliance legitimates his demands, builds up a
store of repressed anger and frustration on her part (which
may surface in her goading him or fighting back during an
actual argument, leading to escalating violence), and
systematically eliminates opportunities for her to build up
a supportive network which could eventually assist her in
leaving the relationship."
Walker145 has clarified the
operation of intermittent reinforcement paradigms in such
relationships, applying the animal model of
punishment-indulgence patterns. In child abuse or spouse
battering, this mechanism is accentuated by the extreme
contrast of terror followed by submission and
reconciliation. When such negative reinforcement occurs
intermittently, the reinforced response consolidates the
attachment between victim and victimizer. During the abuse,
victims tend to dissociate emotionally with a sense of
disbelief that the incident is really happening. This is
followed by the typical post-traumatic response of numbing
and constriction, resulting in inactivity, depression,
self-blame, and feelings of helplessness. Walker145
describes the process as follows: "tension gradually
builds" (during phase one), an explosive battering incident
occurs (during phase two), and a "calm, loving respite
follows phase three). The violence allows intense emotional
engagement and dramatic scenes of forgiveness,
reconciliation, and physical contact that restores the
fantasy of fusion and symbiosis.87,140 Hence, there are two
powerful sources of reinforcement: the "arousal-jag" or
excitement before the violence and the peace of surrender
afterwards, Both of these responses, placed at appropriate
intervals, reinforce the traumatic bond between victim and
abuser.31,145 To varying degrees, the
memory of the battering incidents is state-dependent or
dissociated, and thus only comes back in full force during
renewed situations of terror. This interferes with good
judgment about the relationship and allows longing for love
an reconciliation to overcome realistic fears. VULNERABILITY TO DEVELOP At
least four studies of family violence40,48,63,132 have found a
direct relationship between the severity of childhood
physical abuse and later marital violence. Interestingly,
nonhuman primates subjected to early abuse and deprivation
also are more likely to engage in violent relationships
with their peers as adults.134 as in humans, males tend
to be hyperaggressive, and females fail to protect
themselves and their offspring against danger. Neither sex
develops the capacity for sustained peaceful social
interactions.134 People who are
exposed early to violence or neglect come to expect it as a
way of life. They see the chronic helplessness of their
mothers and fathers' alternating outbursts of affection and
violence; they learn that they themselves have no control.
As adults they hope to undo the past by love, competency,
and exemplary behavior.46,87,145 When they fail they
are likely to make sense out of this situation by blaming
themselves. When they have little experience with
nonviolent resolution of differences, partners in
relationships alternate between an expectation of perfect
behavior leading to perfect harmony and a state of
helplessness, in which all verbal communication seems
futile. A return to earlier coping mechanisms, such as
self-blame, numbing (by means of emotional withdrawal or
drugs or alcohol), and physical violence sets the stage for
a repetition of the childhood trauma and "return of the
repressed."1,42,46,137 BIOLOGIC RESPONSES TO
TRAUMATIZATION Chronic physiologic
hyperarousal to stimuli reminiscent of the trauma is a
cardinal feature of the trauma response, well documented in
a large variety of traumatized individuals, including
victims of child abuse, burns, rape, natural disasters, and
war.2,78,84,107,133,142 Because of
their decreased capacity to modulate physiologic arousal,
which leads to reduced ability to utilize symbols and
fantasy to cope with stress, they tend to experience later
stresses as somatic states, rather than as specific events
that require specific means of coping.142 Thus,
victims of trauma respond to contemporary stimuli as if the
trauma had returned, without conscious awareness that past
injury rather than current stress is the basis of their
physiologic emergency responses. The hyperarousal
interferes with their ability to make calm and rational
assessments and prevents resolution and integration of the
trauma.142 They respond to threats
as emergencies requiring action rather than thought.
Chronic hyperarousal in response to new challenges is also
found in animals exposed to inescapable shock.5 In fact,
this phenomenon drew our attention to the possibility of
using this animal model for the study of human
traumatization.142 Human beings and other
mammals are very similar biologically in respect to such
relatively uncomplicated behaviors as fight, flight, and
freeze responses. Exposure to inescapable aversive events
has widespread behavioral and physiologic effects on
animals including (1) deficits in learning to escape novel
adverse situations, (2) decreased motivation for learning
new options, (3) chronic subjective distress,94 and (4)
increased tumor genesis and immunosuppression.143 All this
is the result not of the shock itself but of a helplessness
syndrome that is a result of the lack of control that the
animal has in terminating shock.
Several neurotransmitters have been shown to be affected by
inescapably fearful experiences in animals; they have low
resting cerebro-spinal fluid (CSF) norepinephrine, but
under stress they respond with much higher elevations than
other animals. Something has disturbed the organisms
capacity to modulate the extent of arousal.37,95,115,116,142
Dysregulation of the serotonin system has been implicated
in this.123,139 Serotonin is thought
to be the neurotransmitter most involved in modulating the
actions of other neurotransmitters;19 it has also been implicated
in the fine tuning of emotional reactions, particularly
arousal and aggression.18 Traumatization also causes
dysregulation of the endogenous opioid system in both
animals and humans. We will discuss this phenomenon and how
this could explain the clinical phenomenon of compulsive
re-exposure to trauma. STATE-DEPENDENT LEARNING
Both Janet74 and Freud observed that
early memory traces can be activated by later events that
cause partial reliving of earlier traumas in the form of
affect states, anxiety, or re-enactments. Their patients
generally had a poor memory for traumatic childhood events,
until they were brought back, by means of hypnosis, to a
state of mind similar to the one they were in at the time
of the trauma. In the past few decades, these notions have
gained scientific confirmation with the discovery of
state-dependent learning; for example what is learned under
the influence of a particular drug tends to become
dissociated and seemingly lost until return of the state
similar to the one in which the memory was stored. State
dependency can be roughly related to arousal levels. For
example, state-dependent learning in humans is produced by
both psychostimulants and depressants: alcohol, marijuana,
barbituates, and amphetamines as well as other psychoactive
agents.32 Reactivation of past
learning is relatively automatic: contextual stimuli
directly evoke memories without conscious awareness of the
transition. The more similar are the contextual stimuli are
to conditions prevailing at the time of the original
storage of memories, the more likely the probability of
retrieval. Both internal states, such as particular
affects, or external events reminiscent of earlier trauma
thus can trigger a return to feeling as if victims are back
in their original traumatizing situation. Thus, battered
women who otherwise behave competently may experience
themselves within the battering relationship like the
terrified child they once were in a violent or alcoholic
home.119 Similarly, war veterans
may be asymptomatic until they become intimate with a
partner and start reliving feelings of loss, grief,
vulnerability, and revenge related to the death of a
comrade on the battlefield but that are now incorrectly
attributed to some element of the current relationship.
Disinhibition resulting from drugs or alcohol strongly
facilitates the occurrence of such reliving experiences,
which then may take the form of acting out violent or
sexual traumatic episodes.107
During states of massive autonomic arousal, memories are
laid down that powerfully influence later actions and
interpretations of events. Long-term activation of memory
tracts is observed in animals exposed to a highly stressful
stimulus.51,81 This pheromenon has been
attributed to massive noradrenergic activity at the time of
the stress.129 In traumatized people,
visual and motoric reliving experiences, nightmares,
flashbacks, and re-enactments are generally preceded by
physiologic arousal.30 Activation of long-term
augmented memory tracts may explain why current stress is
experienced as a return of the trauma. "RETURN OF THE REPRESSED" OCCURS IN
SITUATIONS
Under ordinary conditions, most previously traumatized
individuals can adjust psychologically and socially.
Studies have shown this to be true of victims of rape,82 battered
women,63 and victims of child
abuse.53 Nonhuman primates subjected
to extended periods of isolation may later become
reasonably well integrated socially. However, they do not
respond to stress in the same ways as their nontraumatized
peers. Studies in the Wisconsin primate laboratory have
shown that, even after an initial good social adjustment,
heightened emotional or physical arousal causes social
withdrawal or aggression.86 Even monkeys that recover
in other respects tend to respond inappropriately to sexual
arousal and misperceive social cues when threatened by a
dominant animal.4,95,101 Animals with a history
of trauma also have much more intense catecholamine
responses to stress85 and a blunted cortisol
response.25
Stress causes a return to earlier behavior patterns
throughout the animal kingdom. In experiments in mice,
Mitchell and colleagues98,99 found that arousal state
determines how an animal will react to stimuli. In a state
of low arousal, animals tend to be curious and seek
novelty. During high arousal, they are frightened, avoid
novelty, and perseverate in familiar behavior regardless of
the outcome. Under ordinary circumstances, an animal will
choose the most pleasant of two alternatives. When
hyperaroused, it will seek the familiar, regardless of the
intrinsic rewards.99 Thus shocked animals
returned to the box in which they were originally shocked,
in preference to less familiar locations not associated
with punishment. Punished animals actually increased their
exposure to shock as the trials continued.98 Mitchell
concluded that this perseveration is nonassociative, that
is, if uncoupled from the usual rewards systems, animals
seek optimal levels of arousal,10,122 and this mediates
patterns of alternation and perseveration. Because novel
stimuli cause arousal, an animal in a state of high arousal
will avoid even mildly novel stimuli even if it would
reduce exposure to pain. "THE COSTS OF PLEASURE AND THE
BENEFITS OF PAIN'
Solomon127 proposes an "opponent
process theory of acquired motivation" to explain addictive
behavior that originates in frightening or painful events.
He points out that frequent exposure to stimuli, pleasant
or unpleasant, may lead to habituation; the resulting
withdrawal or abstinence state can take on a powerful life
of its own and may become an effective source of
motivation. In drug addiction, for example, the motivation
changes from getting high (pleasure) to controlling a
highly aversive withdrawal state. In
contrast with drug taking, which initially is pleasant,
many initially aversive stimuli, such as sauna bathing,
marathon running, and parachute jumping, may also be
eventually perceived as highly rewarding by people who have
repeatedly exposed themselves to these frightening or
painful situations. Parachute jumpers, sauna bathers, and
marathon runners all feel exhilaration and a sense of
well-being from the intially aversive activities. These new
sources of pleasure become independent of the fear that was
necessary to produce them in the first place. Solomon
concludes that certain behaviors can become highly
pleasurable: "…if they are derived from aversive
processes they can provide a relatively enduring source of
positive hedonic tone following the removal of the aversive
reenforcer. Fear thus has its positive conquences."127
Solomon and colleagues have applied these observations to
imprinting and social attachment. Their research showed
that young animals responded with increasing distress to
repeated separations.66 Habituation did not occur,
and attachment in fact increased, provided that the
imprinting object was presented at fairly regular
intervals. Starr130 demonstrated that there
is a critical decay duration, the time that it takes for
the withdrawal response to the original stimulus to wear
off. If the reinforcing stimulus of the imprinting or
attachment object is presented at intervals greater than
the critical decay duration, increased attachment does not
occur. However, animals earlier exposed to repeated
separations are more vulnerable to increased distress upon
later separations: "repeated exposures to the imprinting
object took less time and fewer exposures than did the
original exposures." The strength of the imprinting
eventually decays by disuse, but some residues of past
experiences remain and facilitate the reactivation of the
temporarily dormant system. Readdiction to nicotine and
opiates occurs much faster than the initial addiction. If
Starr is correct, similar processes account for social
attachment to aversive objects and thus "the law of social
attachment may be identical to the law of drug
addiction."130
Solomon and coworkers established experimentally that
animal and people become habituated to the original
stimulus, whether it is morphine, parachute jumping or
marathon running, but the withdrawal syndromes that follow
a large number of arousing events retain their integrity
over time, and recur when the original stimuli are
reintroduced.127 Thus, the positive
reinforcer loses some of its power, but the negative
reinforcer gains power and lasts longer: parachute jumpers
continued to feel exhilarated after jumping, even when they
feel less year beforehand. Solomon hypothesized that
endorphins are secreted in response to certain
environmental stresses and play a role in the opponent
process. We have recently found evidence that supports this
view. ADDICTION TO TRAUMA
Some traumatized people remain preoccupied with the trauma
at the expense of other life experiences137,141 and
continue to re-create it in some form for themselves or for
others. War veterans may enlist as mercenaries,128 victims
of incest may become prostitutes,47,120,125 and victims of
childhood physical abuse seemingly provoke subsequent abuse
in foster families53 or become
self-mutilators143a Still others identify
with the aggressor and do to others what was done to
them.21,39 Clinically, these people
are observed to have a vague sense of apprehension,
emptiness, boredom, and anxiety when not involved in
activities reminiscent of the trauma. There is no evidence
to support Freud's idea that repetition eventually leads to
mastery and resolution. In fact, reliving the trauma
repeatedly in psychotherapy may serve to re-enforce the
preoccupation and fixation.
Many observers of traumatic bonding have speculated that
victims become addicted to their victimizers. Erschak33 asks why the
batterer does not stop when injury and pain are apparent
and why does the victim not leave? He answers that "they
are addicted to each other and to abuse. The system, the
interaction, the relation takes hold; the individuals are
as powerless as junkies." ENDOGENOUS OPIATES AND
ATTACHMENT
Thus Starr,130 Solomon,127 Erschak
and others may be right in postulating that people can
become physiologically addicted to each other. There is now
considerable evidence that human attachment is, in part,
mediated by the endogenous opiate system. Research in
non-human primates shows that social attachment is related
to the development of core neurobiologic functions in the
primate brain. Early disruption of the attachment bond
causes longlasting psychobiologic changes that not only
reduce the capacity to cope with subsequent social
disruption but also disturb parenting processes and create
similar vulnerability into the next generation. In recent
years knowledge about the brain circuits involved in the
maintenance of affliative behavior are precisely those most
richly endowed with opioid receptors.83 Behavioral studies show
that the endogenous opioid system plays an important role
in the maintenance of social attachment. According to
Panksepp and colleagues, the separation response in rats
can be inhibited with doses of neuroactive agents to have
yielded reliable behavioral effects. Minute injections of
morphine abolish both the separation cry in rate infants
and the maternal response to it.100,103-105 Morphine-treated
mothers (1 mg per kg) disregard male intruders, often
attempting no defense of their offspring at all. One mother
permitted a male intruder to eat her pups.
Blocking of opioid receptors with naloxone causes increased
huddling in nonhuman primates, where as activation of brain
opioid systems can decrease gregariousness.34,104 Lack
of caregiving during the first few weeks of life decreases
the number of opioid receptors in the cingulate gyrus in
mice.13
Panksepp and colleagues have shown that the loss of social
support decreases brain opioid activity and produces
withdrawal symptoms; emotive circuits mediating
loneliness-panic states are apparently activated or
disinhibited. Re-establishment of social contact may, among
other neural changes, activate endogenous opioid systems,
alleviating separation distress and strengthening social
bonds.103 If brain opioid activity
fulfills social needs, opioid blockade might be expected to
influence such other forms of gratification as sex. Indeed,
opioid systems interact with the brain systems that
regulate sex-steroid secretion,56 and naloxone facilitates
sexual behavior in some mammals.49,96
High levels of stress,3 including social stress,97 also
activate opioid systems. Animals exposed to inescapable
shock develop stress-induced analgesia (SIA) when
re-exposed to stress shortly afterward. This analgesic
response is mediated by endogenous opioids and is readily
reversible by the opioid receptor blocker naloxone.79 In humans
elevations of enkephalins and plasma beta endorphins have
been reported following a large variety of stressors.26,28,73 In
testing the generalizability of the phenomenon of SIA to
people, we found that seven of eight Vietnam veterans with
PTSD showed a 30 percent reduction in perception of pain
when viewing a movie depicting combat in Vietnam. This
analgesia can be reversed with naloxone.107,143b
This amount of analgesia produced by watching 15 minutes of
a combat movie was equivalent to that which follows the
injection of 8 mg. of morphine. We concluded that
Beecher9
was right when, after observing that wounded soldiers
require less morphine, he speculated that "strong emotions
can block pain" because of the release of endogenous
opioids. Our experiments show that even in people
traumatized as adults, re-exposure to situations
reminiscent of the trauma evokes as endogenous opioid
response analogous to that of animals exposed to mild shock
subsequent to inescapable shock. Thus, re-exposure to
stress may have the same effect as the temporary
application of exogenous opioids, providing a similar
relief from anxiety.50
Field113 has suggested that normal
play and exploratory activity in infants are dependent on
the presence of a familiar attachment figure who modulates
physiologic arousal by providing a balance between soothing
and stimulation. She, Reite,115,116 and others have shown
that in the absence of the mother, an infant experiences by
psychological disorganizing extremes of under- and
overarousal. This soothing and arousal may be mediated by
alternate stimulation of different neurotransmitter
systems, in which the endogenous opioid system is likely to
play a role, especially in subjective experience of safety
and soothing. Endogenous opioids decrease central
noradrenergic activity,6 and their activation may thus
inhibit hyperarousal. Childhood abuse and neglect may cause
a long-term vulnerability to be hyperaroused, expressed on
a social level as decreased ability to modulate strong
affect states. "On a continuum from low to high physiologic
arousal there is an optimal level for every organism. The
shape of an individual's optimal stimulation curve may
depend on the level of stimulation received during early
experience."37 As a result, people who
were neglected or abused as children may require much
higher external stimulation of the endogenous opioid system
for soothing than those whose endogenous opioids can be
more easily activated by conditioned responses based on
good early caregiving experiences. These victimized people
neutralize their hyperarousal by a variety of addictive
behaviors including compulsive re-exposure to situations
reminiscent of the trauma. CHILDHOOD TRAUMA, ENDOGENOUS OPIOIDS,
AND If
recent animal research is any guide, people, particularly
children, who have been exposed to severe, prolonged
environmental stress will experience extraordinary
increases in both catecholamine and endogenous opioid
responses to subsequent stress. The endogenous opioid
response may produce both dependence and withdrawal
phenomena resembling those of exogenous opiods. This could
explain, in part, why childhood trauma is associated with
subsequent self-destructive behavior. Depending on which
stimuli have come to condition an opioid response,
self-destructive behavior may include chronic involvement
with abusive partners, sexual masochism, self-starvation,
and violence against self or others. In a recent study, we
found that patients' reports of early childhood physical
and sexual abuse were highly correlated with
self-mutilation and self-starvation in adulthood.143a This
controlled study supports numerous other clinical reports
about the relationship between childhood abuse and
self-destructive behavior.52,106,118 In these people,
self-mutilation is a common response to abandonment; it is
accompanied by both analgesia and an altered state of
consciousness, and it provides relief and return to
normality. The pain, cutting, and burning are apparent
attempts at "repairing the cohesiveness of the self in the
face of overwhelming anxiety."35 This pattern is reminiscent
of spouse abuse described by Walker:145 "tension gradually
builds, an explosive battering (self-mutilating) incident
occurs, and a 'calm, loving respite' follows."
Bach-y-Rita7 studied men who were in
prison because they habitually took out their frustrations
on others violently. He found that they started to
self-mutilate in prison when no external object of violence
was available. Thus acts of violence that the perpetrator
regards as horrible may, in fact, produce somatic calm. The
evidence for involvement of the endogenous opioid system in
self-mutilation is fairly good. A recent study found
increased levels of metenkephalins in habitual
self-mutilators during the active stage of self-harm, but
not 3 months later.27 Opioid receptor blockade
has been found to decrease self-mutilation.60,117 The
specific biologic factors that account for the relief felt
by these traumatized people who habitually harm themselves
or others are still unknown. TREATMENT IMPLICATIONS
Compulsive repetition of the trauma usually is an
unconscious process that, although it may provide a
temporary sense of mastery or even pleasure, ultimately
perpetuates chronic feelings of helplessness and a
subjective sense of being bad and out of control. Gaining
control over one's current life, rather than repeating
trauma in action, mood, or somatic states, is the goal of
treatment.
Although verbalizing the contextual elements of the trauma
is the essence of treatment of acute post-traumatic stress,
the essential elements of chronic post-traumatic reactions
generally are retrieved with difficulty and often cannot be
dealt with until reasonable control over current behavior
can assure the safety of both the patient and those in the
patient's immediate surroundings. Failure to approach
trauma-related material very gradually leads to
intensification of the affects and physiologic states
related to the trauma, leading to increased repetitive
phenomena. It is important to keep in mind that the only
reason to uncover the trauma is to gain conscious control
over the unbidden re-experience or re-enactments. Prior to
unearthing the traumatic roots of current behavior, people
need to gain reasonable control over the longstanding
secondary defenses that were originally elaborated to
defend against being overwhelmed by traumatic material such
as alcohol and drug abuse and violence against self or
others. The trauma can only be worked through after a
secure bond is established with another person. The
presence of an attachment figure provides people with the
security necessary to explore their life experiences and to
interrupt the inner or social isolation that keeps people
stuck in repetitive patterns. Both the etiology and the
cure of trauma-related psychological disturbance depend
fundamentally on security of interpersonal attachments.
Once the traumatic experiences have been located in time
and place, a person can start making distinctions between
current life stresses and past trauma and decrease the
impact of the trauma on present experience.137
Self-help organizations for people with addictions or with
backgrounds that include childhood traumas or parental
addictions have elaborated a model of treatment that
appears to address many of the core issues of repetitive
traumatization. These groups provide people with both human
attachments and a meaningful cognitive frame for dealing
with the sense of helplessness that is central to these
problems.. They focus on the development of "serenity,"
which can be understood both as a state of automatic
stability and of being at peace with one's surroundings.
These groups teach that the way to gain this serenity is by
learning to trust, by surrendering, and by making contact
and developing interpersonal commitments. They provide a
support network that attempts to avoid the barriers that
people create to bolster their individual differences, and
they thus endeavor to circumvent the shame of being
helpless and vulnerable that perpetuates social isolation.
Shame and social isolation are thought to promote
regression to earlier states of anxious attachment and to
addictive involvements. In these circles it is said that:
"No pain is so devastating as the pain a person refuses to
face and no suffering is so lasting as suffering left
unacknowledged."23 There is emphasis on living
in the here and now, generally with the acknowledgement
that in contrast to victimized children, adults can learn
to protect themselves and make a conscious choice about not
engaging in relationships or behaviors that are known to be
harmful. The underlying assumption is that conclusions
drawn from a child's perspective retain their power into
adulthood until verbalized and examined. In a group
context, victims can learn that as children they were not
responsible for the chaos, violence and despair surrounding
them, but that as adults there are choices and
consequences.23,137 These groups also teach that in order to
avoid repetition, one has to give up the behavior, drug, or
person involved in the addiction. Acknowledging the
addictive quality of the involvement is known as overcoming
denial. Avoiding acknowledging the feelings promotes acting
out. Traumatized people need to understand that
acknowledging feelings related to the trauma does not bring
back the trauma itself, and its accompanying violence and
helplessness. There must be emphasis on finding replacement
activities and experiences that are more rewarding,
successful and powerful in the immediate present. These may
include being of help to victims of similar traumas as
one's own.
Psychotropic medicines may be of help to decrease autonomic
hypearousal and decrease all or none responses. Lithium,
beta blockers, and serotonin reuptake blockers such as
flouxetine, may be particularly helpful. By decreasing
hyperarousal, one decreases the likelihood that current
stress will be experienced as a recurrence of past trauma.
This facilitates finding solutions appropriate to the
current stress rather than the past.139 The use of medications
that affect the opioid system should be regarded as
experimental and at this time needs to be avoided except in
life-threatening cases. In
our last study on patients with borderline personality
disorder Judith Herman and I (unpublished data, 1988) asked
our self-mutilating subjects what had helped them most in
overcoming the impact of their childhood traumas, including
their self-mutilation. All subjects attributed their
improvement to having found a safe therapeutic relationship
in which they had been able to explore the realities of
their childhood experiences and their reactions to them.
All subjects reported that they had been able to markedly
decrease a variety of repetitive behaviors, including
habitual self-harm, after they had established a
relationship in which they felt safe to acknowledge the
realities of both their past and their current lives. SUMMARY
Trauma can be repeated on behavioral, emotional,
physiologic, and neuroendocriniologic levels. Repetition on
these different levels causes a large variety of individual
and social suffering. Anger directed against the self or
others is always a central problem in the lives of people
who have been violated and this is itself a repetitive
re-enactment of real events from the past.
People need a "safe base" for normal social and biologic
development. Traumatization occurs when both internal and
external resources are inadequate to cope with external
threat. Uncontrolable disruptions or distortions of
attachment bonds precede the development of post-traumatic
stress syndromes. People seek increased attachment in the
face of danger. Adults, as well as children, may develop
strong emotional ties with people whe intermittently
harass, beat, and, threaten them. The persistence of these
attachment bonds leads to confusion of pain and love.
Assaults lead to hyperarousal states for which the memory
can be state-dependent or dissociated, and this memory only
returns fully during renewed terror. This interferes with
good judgment about these relationships and allows longing
for attachment to overcome realistic fears. All
primates subjected to early abuse and deprivation are
vulnerable to engage in violent relationships with peers as
adults. Males tend to be hyperagressive, and females fail
to protect themselves and their offspring against danger.
Chronic physiologic hyperarousal persists, particularly to
stimuli reminiscent of the trauma. Later stresses tend to
be experienced as somatic states, rather than as specific
events that require specific means of coping. Thus victims
of trauma may respond to contemporary stimuli as a return
of the trauma, without conscious awareness that past injury
rather than current stress is the basis of their
physiologic emergency responses. Hyperarousal interferes
with the ability to make rational assessments and prevents
resolution and integration of the trauma. Disturbances in
the catecholamine, serotonin, and endogenous opioid systems
have been implicated in this persistenence of
all-or-nothing responses.
People who have been exposed to highly stressful stimuli
develop long-term potentiation of memory tracts that are
reactivated at times of subsequent arousal. This activation
explains how current stress is experienced as a return of
the trauma; it causes a return to earlier behavior
patterns. Ordinarily, people will choose the most pleasant
of two alternatives. High arousal causes people to engage
in familiar behavior, regardless of the rewards. As novel
stimuli are anxiety provoking, under stress, previously
traumatized people tend return to familiar patterns, even
if they cause pain. The
"opponent process theory of acquired motivation" explains
how fear may become a pleasurable sensation and that "the
laws of social attachment may be identical to those of drug
addiction." Victims can become addicted to their
victimizers; social contact may activate endogenous opioid
systems, alleviating separation distress and strengthening
social bonds. High levels of social stress activate opioid
systems as well. Vietnam veterans with PTSD show
opiod-mediated reduction in pain perception after
re-exposure to a traumatic stimulus. Thus re-exposure to
stress can have the same effect as taking exogenous
opioids, providing a similar relief from stress.
Childhood abuse and neglect enhance long-term hyperarousal
and decreased modulation of strong affect states. Abused
children may require much higher external stimulation to
affect the endogenous opioid system for soothing than when
the biologic concomitants of comfort are easily activated
by conditioned responses based on good early caregiving
experiences. Victimized people may neutralize their
hyperarousal by a variety of addictive behaviors, including
compulsive re-exposure to victimization of self and others.
Gaining control over one's current life, rather than
repeating trauma in action, mood, or somatic states, is the
goal of treatment. The only reason to uncover traumatic
material is to gain conscious control over unbidden
re-experiences or re-enactments. The presence of strong
attachments provides people with the security necessary to
explore their life experiences and to interrupt the inner
or social isolation that keeps them stuck in repetitive
patterns. In contrast with victimized children, adults can
learn to protect themselves and make conscious choices
about not engaging in relationships or behaviors that are
harmful.
TRAUMATIC BONDING
OF THREAT
SELF HARM
Massachusetts Mental Health Center
Harvard Medical School
74 Fenwood Road
Boston Massachusetts 02116
*Director, Trauma Center,
Massachusetts Mental Health Center, Harvard Medical School,
Boston, Massachusetts
Citation:
- van der Kolk BA. The compulsion to repeat the trauma: re-enactment, revictimization, and masochism. Psychiatric Clinics of North America 1989;12(2):389-411.
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